About Us
Where women come to remember they were never asking for too much.
Why SelfPermission.com Exists
This is a place for you, to discover how and why putting yourself first allows you to give more from a place of personal strength over exhaustion.
It’s a space to feel.
To slow down.
To hear yourself again — before you override it, apologize for it, or try to make it more palatable.
SelfPermission.com was created for women who’ve done the work, held it all together, and are now ready for something quieter… and truer.
This isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about coming back to who you’ve always been.
What We Believe
That the voice saying not enough, was never yours to begin with.
That you can still care for others without abandoning yourself.
That the pause before you say yes is where your truth lives.
That self-permission is a practice, not a personality.
That remembering yourself is often more powerful than reinventing yourself.
Our Mission
To create a quiet, digital space where women can reclaim the tiny moments between yes and no, the moments where self-permission actually happens.
Not perfectly. Not dramatically. Just honestly, one choice at a time.
Our Vision
A world where women stop waiting for permission that was always theirs to give.
We believe in small shifts that lead to real change. In listening before reacting. In responding to yourself before responding to everyone else. In returning—again and again, to the truth of your own voice.
The Space Between:
Why It Matters
Most of us live on autopilot. We say yes before thinking, taking on what’s handed to us, moving from one obligation to the next.
But real change begins in the pause.
Before saying yes, ask yourself...
Do I even want this?
Before agreeing, pause...
Am I choosing this, or was it just handed to me?
Before doubting yourself, check...
Would I say this to a friend?
That’s The Space Between,where self-permission starts.
And that’s what our work is here to explore.
We envision a world where women stop asking for permission and start claiming it - where every choice comes from a place of unshakeable self-trust. Where choosing yourself isn't selfish, it's essential. Where one woman's courage to say YES to herself creates a ripple, showing others they can do the same. Not someday. Not when it's convenient. Now.
Why We Do This Work
A Place where the pause creates, the permission and your self is always first.
where Self Permission happens and real change begins in the pause.
You’ll find quiet tools, thoughtful writing, and digital offerings that don’t try to change who you are—just support you in hearing what’s already there.
Our kits, cards, slips and tools are designed to interrupt the autopilot. To bring you back to a place of choice. Not from overwhelm, but from awareness.
This isn’t about becoming your best self.It’s about remembering your truest one.
A Note from Tina Fletcher
Founder & Self Permission Advocate
I built SelfPermission.com because I got tired of hearing that little voice whisper, "You’re too Much, You’re not Enough, or You Can’t." And I finally realized, it was never my voice to begin with. So I made a place where women can pause, say it back, and choose something else.
