The Weight of Yes

Time to Take Selfish Back


You were taught that saying yes makes you a good person.

You’ve been carrying it longer than you realize.
The subtle ache.
The automatic yes.
The praise for being the one who handles it all. Without complaint, without pause, without needing anything in return.


This is the book that names the weight.
And shows you how to set it down.

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This is for you if...

  • You say yes before you even think
  • You’re everyone’s go-to and you’re exhausted
  • The word selfish, still hits a little too hard
  • You feel guilty when you rest
  • You want to stop performing generosity and start choosing it

You can’t hear yourself if you always answer first.
This isn’t about saying no more.
It’s about letting silence speak first

What You’ll Get

  • A 100-page digital book (PDF + EPUB)
  • Four powerful sections guiding you from awareness to self-permission
  • Instant access via our Mobile Responsive Permission Hub
  • Optional read-on-screen or download formats
  • No fluff. No filler. Just truth, rhythm, and relief.

Why This Book Matters

We’ve been taught that being good means being agreeable.
That being generous means being available.
That saying yes is what makes us worthy.


But at what cost?

The Weight of Yes is a book about self permission and how it shapes your every action.

It’s a book about self-trust.


About noticing the moment before your automatic yes and choosing — truly choosing — what you give your energy to.

This isn’t about giving less. It’s about giving from wholeness.

It’s about choosing your yes with the same reverence,the same automatic agreement, that the world has always demanded from your no.

A Peek Inside

You don’t need discover more about saying no. You need to understand why you’ve been saying yes in the first place — and how to finally choose differently.

A PEEK INTO THE INTRODUCTION

  • PART 1: THE WEIGHT WE DIDN'T KNOW WE WERE CARRYING
    Why self-sacrifice became glorified—and how quietly it turned into self-abandonment.
  • PART 2: WHY THE YES FEELS HEAVIER THAN NO
    How to shift from people-pleasing autopilot to unapologetic self-trust.
    Your “selfish” isn’t dangerous. It’s your compass.
  • PART 3: RELEARNING HOW TO CHOOSE
    The small but radical shifts that make saying no feel possible and saying yes feel true.
  • PART 4: CREATING A LIFE THAT DOESN'T RUN ON OBLIGATION
    Giving from overflow, not from empty. Choosing yourself without apology.

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This isn't about saying no. It's about saying yes to yourself.


I've read every book about boundaries, but this hit different. The Weight of Yes names something I've felt my entire career but could never articulate. My team is stronger, and for the first time in 20 years, I'm not exhausted at the end of every day. ~ Trina P.

Between running my business and raising three kids, I was always saying yes to everything. This book helped me see that my constant yes wasn't helping anyone. Now my children see a mother who values herself, not just someone who's always available.~ Elena R.

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If this doesn’t land with you, just email us, within 14 days and we’ll give you a refund — no guilt, no questions.

What if that whisper of hesitation before yes isn't self-doubt

... but self-trust trying to get your attention?

Freqently Asked Questions

Is this a physical book?

No. It’s a digital download (PDF + EPUB), yours to read, keep, and come back to as often as you need.
This book is perfect for women (and yes, men too) who feel stuck in autopilot, overwhelmed by people-pleasing, or disconnected from their own needs.
If you're ready to stop asking for permission and start claiming it — this is for you.

How do I read it?

On any device — your phone, tablet, or computer.
You’ll get access to your personal Permission Hub, where you can either read within the hub or download the format that suits you best.

How do I get the book?

After purchase, you’ll receive instant access to the Permission Hub.

Just log in with your email and password to read or download the book right away.

What if I don’t like it?

We want you to love your experience with The Weight of Yes: It’s Time to Take Selfish Back.
If it doesn’t resonate, we offer a 14-day money-back guarantee — no questions, no guilt. Just email us and we’ll refund you.

Quiet clarity, without the overwhelm.

$14

Start understanding the power of putting yourself first in then next 2 Minutes! Delivered Instantly (Digital Access)

Finally! Someone gets it! I felt like I was going crazy trying to be everything to everyone. This book gave me permission to put myself first without the guilt. Life changing. ~ Carmen R.

Precise, powerful, and long overdue. I recognize these patterns both in my personal and professional lives and believe this book should be required reading for every woman in leadership. ~ Amrita P.

Love this book! Quick read but so powerful. Changed how I handle my classroom, my relationships, everything really! ~ Katie O.

I was following the same path as my mother - always available, always sacrificing. Now I'm teaching my daughters a different way. The healing is real. Thank you, Tina. ~ Grace K.

Honestly? I was skeptical at first... another book telling women what to do? But this was different. Short version: just read it. Your future self will thank you. ~ Jade T.

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