The Weight of Yes Kit

Time to Take Selfish Back


For the yes-tired, the boundary-curious, and the women ready to take selfish back.

You’ve spent years saying yes without checking if you meant it.


Now you get to do things differently.


This Kit is a self-permission power bundle:
A digital sanctuary of truth, clarity, and beautifully inconvenient honesty.

Digital Kit – $39

Start understanding the power of putting yourself first in then next 2 Minutes! Delivered Instantly (Digital Access)

This is for you if...

  • You’ve mastered the art of being needed, and it’s worn you down
  • Saying no still feels like breaking some invisible rule
  • You're craving a new way—one with more softness and more truth
  • You’re ready to stop performing generosity and start choosing it

You don’t owe your peace of mind to anyone’s expectations.(And you never did.)

What You’ll Get

A complete digital experience that speaks to the part of you that’s exhausted from explaining. Designed to be returned to, revisited, and reused, whenever your yes feels too heavy.

  • The Book Experience Hub: The Weight of Yes (PDF + EPUB)
  • Selfish Shift Cards Deck Hub: 18 digitial and printable cards to Shift the Weight of Yes and the stories that stop you from taking selfish back.
  • Pause & Permission Slips Hub : 5 beautifully designed slips + a blank one to give yourself permission to take selfish back and lose the weight of yes.
  • The No Journal: A beautifully designed digital journal (PDF downloadable) for the yes-tired & no-curious
  • Selfish & Self Permission Poster Set: 10 fun and motivational posters in 3 formats (A4, desktop, phone)

Why This Kit Matters

This is a self-permission kit—a bundle that doesn’t just tell you why you’re tired, but shows you how everything changes when your actions and boundaries are rooted in self-permission.
It’s not about more effort. It’s about more alignment. And alignment feels like relief.

  • You don’t have to overgive to be good.
  • You don’t have to abandon yourself to be loved.
  • You don’t have to stay small to be safe.

This kit won’t yell at you.
It’ll whisper the truth until you remember it for yourself.

A Peek Inside

  • The Weight of Yes — an revolutionary book that names what you’ve been carrying
  • Selfish Shift Cards — each one a mirror, a jolt, a reframing of what you already know
  • Pause & Permission Slips — subtle reminders that you don’t need anyone’s approval
  • The No Journal — soft, deep, and structured like a conversation with your future self
  • Selfish & Self Permission Posters — reminders you can hang, pin, or pocket both digtal and printable.

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Get Instant Access!

$39

Product Digital & Printable Value
The Weight of Yes Book  PDF + EPUB $14
18 Selfish Shift Cards Deck PDF, PNG, JPG, Avery, A4 $12
6 Pause & Permission Slips PDF, PNG, JPG,  Avery, A4 $5
The No Journal PDF, PNG $14
10 Motivational Posters
PNG, JPG, A4, Phone, PC $9
Total Value
$54

Yours for $39.


The Weight of Yes Book:
It's time to take selfish back

This book explores the quiet weight of every unspoken expectation, the automatic yes, every time you let go of your own needs to keep the peace.

  • A 100+ page digital book (PDF + EPUB)
  • Four powerful sections guiding you from awareness to self-permission
  • Instant access via our Mobile Responsive Permission Hub
  • Ideal for using digitally on tablets, phones and computers (PDF) or printing out the pages as you wish (PNG)
  • Optional read-on-screen or download formats
  • No fluff. No filler. Just truth, rhythm, and relief.

The Selfish Shift Cards:
Rewrite the Old Story

These cards are all about shifting the Weight of Yes and the stories that stop you from taking selfish back.

  • 18 Digital Cards, Mindset-shifting cards that flip old stories about worth, giving, and guilt
  • Download or use digitally with options to print 8up with Avery or 10up with A4 Template (PDF, PNG, JPG, Avery, A4)
  • Instant access via our Mobile Responsive Permission Hub
  • Let the world know: you’ve rebranded selfish as you personal self-respect.

Pause & Permission Slips:
It's time to take selfish back

These Pause & Permission slips giving yourself permission to take selfish back and lose the weight of yes.

  • 5 beautifully designed permission slips, plus a blank one, ready for your story
  • Download or use digitally with options to print 4up with Avery & A4 Template (PDF, PNG, JPG, Avery, A4)
  • Instant access via our Mobile Responsive Permission Hub
  • Optional read-on-screen or download formats
  • Giving yourself permission in the power of written form.

The No Journal:
For the Yes-tired and No Curious

This journal is about giving yourself permission to put yourself first. And in that personal strength you replace exhaustion with self.

  • A Beautiful 56 pages digital journal to write in and explore the weight of yes
  • Instant access via our Mobile Responsive Permission Hub
  • Optional read-on-screen or download formats
  • Ideal for using digitally on tablets, phones and computers (PDF) or printing out the pages as you wish (PNG)
  • Thoughful prompting and spaces for you

Self Permission & Selfish Posters:
Claiming Your Permission

These posters are fun and thought provoking. Use them to remind yourself you are not selfish you are now self permission. Quietly defiant. Beautifully bold.

  • A 10 Posters each one is a call back to self, a beautifully defiant reminder that you get to choose.
  • Four powerful sections guiding you from awareness to self-permission
  • Instant access via our Mobile Responsive Permission Hub
  • Ideal for using digitally on tablets (PDF & JPG) or printing out the pages as you wish (PNG)
  • Designed to rewire the voice in your head, not just decorate your wall

I've read every book about boundaries, but this hit different. The Weight of Yes names something I've felt my entire career but could never articulate. My team is stronger, and for the first time in 20 years, I'm not exhausted at the end of every day. ~ Trina P.

Between running my business and raising three kids, I was always saying yes to everything. This book helped me see that my constant yes wasn't helping anyone. Now my children see a mother who values herself, not just someone who's always available.~ Elena R.

MONEY BACK GUARANTEE!

If this doesn’t land with you, just email us, within 14 days and we’ll give you a refund — no guilt, no questions.

Selfish isn’t a flaw. It’s self-respect with better PR.

Freqently Asked Questions

Is this a physical book?

No. It’s a digital download (PDF + EPUB), yours to read, keep, and come back to as often as you need.
This book is perfect for women (and yes, men too) who feel stuck in autopilot, overwhelmed by people-pleasing, or disconnected from their own needs.
If you're ready to stop asking for permission and start claiming it — this is for you.

How do I read it?

On any device — your phone, tablet, or computer.
You’ll get access to your personal Permission Hub, where you can either read within the hub or download the format that suits you best.

How do I get the book?

After purchase, you’ll receive instant access to the Permission Hub.

Just log in with your email and password to read or download the book right away.

What if I don’t like it?

We want you to love your experience with The Weight of Yes: It’s Time to Take Selfish Back.
If it doesn’t resonate, we offer a 14-day money-back guarantee — no questions, no guilt. Just email us and we’ll refund you.

Time to Take Selfish Back

$39

Start understanding the power of putting yourself first in then next 2 Minutes! Delivered Instantly (Digital Access)

Finally! Someone gets it! I felt like I was going crazy trying to be everything to everyone. This book gave me permission to put myself first without the guilt. Life changing. ~ Carmen R.

Precise, powerful, and long overdue. I recognize these patterns both in my personal and professional lives and believe this book should be required reading for every woman in leadership. ~ Amrita P.

Love this book! Quick read but so powerful. Changed how I handle my classroom, my relationships, everything really! ~ Katie O.

I was following the same path as my mother - always available, always sacrificing. Now I'm teaching my daughters a different way. The healing is real. Thank you, Tina. ~ Grace K.

Honestly? I was skeptical at first... another book telling women what to do? But this was different. Short version: just read it. Your future self will thank you. ~ Jade T.

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